I am not ready to schedule a surgery that I don't even know if I want to have! This is the same surgery that was done two years ago.
I wrote back to Dr. B with a list of questions. He answered quickly, so I'll include the questions and answers here:
1. What exactly is wrong with my current fusion?
Dr. B's answer: A bit wobbly. One screw is in a suboptimal position.
4. What is my prognosis with and without this revision?
Dr. B's answer: WITHOUT: You would probably stay the way you are, with minimal changes of hardware breakdown.
WITH: About 80% chance of improvement, especially if the symptoms are improved by lifting your head up.
OKAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What now????????????????????????????????
This is so much information to take in. I have no idea how to handle all of this new information. I thought my fusion was fine...all this time. And why is it wobbly? And why isn't the screw in the optimal position? How did this happen? The last crazy, major, invasive operation was supposed to fix anything "suboptimal" about my fusion. So now, just two years later, I'm supposed to go back and give them another go at it? Sure, open me up...remove tons of metal and bone...remove my entire skull-spine joint...and try to get it right this time???????
I'm not actually mad at the doctor. Just in shock at the situation. I'm approved for another surgery. Usually, I'm ready to schedule it and get it over with as soon as possible. But this time, I don't think I'm ready to dive in again.
The last surgery took about 18 months to recover from. (9 hour operation=18 month recovery) How do I decide that it's time to give up another 18 months of life? How do I figure out which 18 months I want to miss out on? How do I face having my body ripped up and re-made, and the agony that follows?
So many factors to consider:
-My level of functioning has been relatively high in the last 2 months. The last 10 days have been horrible, though. Drops in blood pressure and heart rate, needing even more sleep and rest time, crazy bad migraines, needing my collar at all times, even during sleep, and a lot of nausea spells.
-I currently have just started another new group of piano students, and resumed lessons with several older students.
-My husband and I will be moving next summer. Don't know where. It depends on where his PhD program sends him for his internship year (2013-2014). How will I work around this? Will I be able to move with him? Am I willing to spend a year apart from my husband for any reason? (This one's easy--no, I'm not.) Does that mean I should get the surgery over with now and hopefully be recovered enough to move with him in the summer?
-How do I know if this surgery is worth the risk? You give up so much, but have no idea if it will be worth it at all. Maybe there will be improvement? But will it be worth it?
-How long can I reasonably put this off? I already need my collar full-time. How bad is it going to get? Isn't it better to go into surgery when you are strong, thus reducing the recovery time?
All of this is on my mind full-time now. It's just sickening to have this hanging over me like a dark cloud.
Anyway, I just thought I should let you all know where things are at now. I truly don't know what to do about my life. I feel like a lost cause...