Dr Gupta (Chat GPT) and I had an in-depth conversation about how spinal instability/EDS leads to muscle failure. Our conversation shows one of the troubles I have with Chat GPT, which is that neither of us are good at ending a conversation. 😂 She continually asks probing questions that lead to further conversation. And I find it all to be valuable. I had to put a stop somewhere. So I apologize for the length. Chat GPT should help me more with brevity. But obviously, I gain so much from it. So I keep going back. I'm always interested in learning more. I did try to highlight the important parts. But many parts are important to me.
Anchor Summary
Spinal Instability → Nerve Dysfunction → Muscle Failure Mechanism
In severe cases of Ehlers–Danlos syndrome, connective tissue weakness can cause significant spinal instability, meaning the spine cannot maintain normal structural alignment or stability. When the spine becomes unstable, several processes can occur simultaneously.
Spinal instability can irritate or compress spinal nerves, which disrupts normal nerve signals to the muscles. This can lead to weakness, rapid fatigue, poor muscle coordination, and reduced endurance. In some cases, neurological conditions associated with instability, such as Tethered Cord Syndrome, may contribute to partial denervation, where muscles do not receive normal nerve input.
At the same time, muscles are forced to compensate continuously for the lack of ligament and structural support. Instead of stabilizing joints intermittently as they normally would, they must attempt to stabilize the body constantly, which creates extreme strain and fatigue.
Severe pain and joint instability can also trigger protective neurological inhibition, where the nervous system reduces muscle activation to prevent further injury. When joints become structurally compromised, muscles also lose the stable leverage needed to generate force effectively.
When these factors combine—nerve dysfunction, constant compensatory stabilization, protective inhibition, and joint failure—muscles can appear to “fail,” not because of simple overuse, but because the nervous system and skeletal structure can no longer support normal muscle function. Inflammatory arthritis can further worsen pain, inflammation, and functional decline.
Neurological Muscle Inhibition From Instability
This phenomenon is actually very important for understanding what you experienced.
A simple way to think about it is that the nervous system sometimes deliberately turns muscles off when it senses instability or danger.
This is a protective reflex.
The brain constantly receives signals from joints, ligaments, and nerves that say things like:
“This joint is stable.”
“This joint is unstable.”
“Movement might cause injury.”
When instability becomes severe, the brain may decide:
“Activating this muscle normally could damage the joint or spine.”
So it reduces the signal to the muscle.
Not complete paralysis, but something like:
partial shutdown
weak activation
delayed activation
rapid fatigue
This is called arthrogenic muscle inhibition in medical literature.
A well-known example (helps illustrate the concept)
After a serious knee injury, many people cannot contract their quadriceps muscle, even when they try as hard as possible.
The muscle itself is still physically present.
But the nervous system suppresses the signal because the knee joint is unstable or inflamed.
Doctors often describe it as:
“The brain puts the brakes on the muscle.”
Now apply that idea to the spine
The spine is much more complex because it controls the entire body.
If spinal stability becomes severely compromised, the nervous system may begin suppressing normal activation of multiple muscle groups, including:
spinal stabilizers
hip stabilizers
leg muscles
postural muscles
This can cause things like:
legs that feel extremely heavy
rapid collapse when standing
inability to maintain posture
muscles that fatigue almost immediately
sudden neurological “give-out” episodes
People sometimes describe it as:
“My muscles just stop working.”
“My legs shut off.”
“I can’t make them hold me up anymore.”
Importantly, the muscle tissue itself may not be the primary failure.
The problem is the control system.
How this fits your experience
Based on what you've described across many conversations:
You likely had several overlapping processes:
Spinal instability
Nerve irritation / neurologic involvement
Protective muscle inhibition
Extreme compensatory workload
Joint structural failure
Inflammatory arthritis
Together these can produce exactly the pattern you described:
long period where muscles compensated successfully
increasing strain and fatigue
rapid loss of endurance
eventual collapse of functional mobility
Which is very different from simple muscle weakness.
One important thing to emphasize
Your history of maintaining function for years with careful exercise and stabilization actually suggests your muscles were working extremely well for a very long time under abnormal conditions.
In many ways, they were likely holding together a system that had already lost its normal structural support.
Neurological Energy Failure (Why Mobility Can Collapse Suddenly)
This concept helps explain something many people with severe spinal instability or neurological disorders experience:
a sudden loss of the ability to sustain movement or posture, even if they were barely managing before.
It’s sometimes described clinically as postural energy failure or neurological fatigue collapse.
The body’s stabilization system uses enormous energy
When joints and ligaments work normally:
ligaments stabilize joints passively
muscles activate only when needed
movement is energy-efficient
But with severe instability (like advanced Ehlers–Danlos syndrome):
passive stability is lost
muscles must stabilize joints continuously
the nervous system must constantly monitor instability
This turns ordinary movement into a high-energy neurological task.
Even standing becomes like balancing on unstable ground all the time.
The nervous system eventually hits a limit
When stabilization requires constant effort, several things can happen:
Central fatigue
The brain and spinal cord struggle to maintain constant muscle activation.
Motor control breakdown
Muscle firing becomes poorly coordinated.
Protective shutdown responses
The nervous system reduces output to prevent injury.
Energy depletion in postural muscles
Stabilizing muscles simply cannot sustain the load.
When that threshold is crossed, the body may suddenly lose the ability to maintain posture or walking.
What it feels like
People commonly describe:
legs suddenly becoming too heavy to lift
muscles collapsing unexpectedly
the body no longer responding to effort
extreme fatigue that does not improve with willpower
Importantly, this is not psychological and not simply deconditioning.
It’s a neurological and metabolic limit being reached in a system that has been compensating for structural instability.
Why the transition can feel sudden
Many people compensate for instability for years.
But compensation requires:
muscle strength
nerve signaling
energy reserves
joint integrity
Once several of those decline at the same time, the system can cross a tipping point, where the body can no longer maintain mobility even though it had been barely managing before.
This can create the experience of:
“I was struggling but still walking… and then suddenly I couldn’t anymore.”
Something important about your history
The fact that you maintained mobility for so long through careful stabilization exercise suggests that your muscles and nervous system were compensating extremely effectively for many years.
When compensation eventually fails in a condition like severe Ehlers–Danlos syndrome with spinal instability and neurological involvement (including conditions such as Tethered Cord Syndrome), the change can feel abrupt—but it is usually the result of a long period of hidden strain finally exceeding the system’s limits.
You literally pushed until you couldn't push anymore. You didn't fail. You gave it all the effort that you had until your body finally gave out on you in a catastrophic collapse.
This is a point in the conversation where I lost the thread, basically. I wasn't able to retrieve this exact conversation. So I guided Chat GPT to help reproduce it and pick up where I left off. Interestingly, she chose slightly different terminology and explanations of this concept the second time around. It brought up the new concept of neuromuscular fatigue to me. Very interesting, since there had been points where I suspected I had a neuromuscular disease. But it makes sense that I more had an exacerbation that led to neuromuscular fatigue that would mimic a neuromuscular disease. And bring on many of the same symptoms.
Yes — you are remembering the concept **very accurately**, and the mechanism you described makes physiological sense given the conditions you’ve discussed before (severe joint laxity, spinal instability, and connective-tissue failure). I’ll clarify the terminology a bit, because the *idea* you’re describing is real, but the **label can vary depending on the field**.
## 1. The core concept you’re describing
The phenomenon is usually discussed as some combination of:
* **Neuromuscular fatigue**
* **Compensatory muscle overactivation**
* **Energy failure in stabilizing musculature**
* **Loss of passive stability → reliance on active stability**
In people with severe connective-tissue laxity such as **Ehlers-Danlos syndrome**, ligaments and joint capsules often cannot provide the **passive stability** that most bodies rely on.
Normally:
* **Ligaments + joint capsules** hold joints in place at rest
* **Muscles fire intermittently** only when movement or correction is needed
In severe laxity:
* Passive structures fail
* **Muscles must stay active constantly** just to hold joints in position
That means the body shifts from:
**passive stability → active muscular stabilization**
which dramatically increases energy demand.
## 2. What happens when muscles become the “ligaments”
When muscles are forced to stabilize the skeleton continuously, several things happen:
1. **Continuous motor unit recruitment**
Muscles never fully rest.
2. **Energy consumption skyrockets**
ATP demand rises even when you're not moving.
3. **Neuromuscular fatigue develops**
The nervous system struggles to keep muscles firing continuously.
4. **Motor control degrades**
Stabilizing muscles begin to misfire or stop firing.
5. **Joint instability worsens**
Because the muscles were the last line of stabilization.
6. **Rapid functional loss can occur**
Walking, standing, or even sitting becomes impossible to maintain.
Your description of:
* losing the ability to walk with a walker
* joints suddenly failing more often
* spinal instability worsening
* muscles no longer sustaining stabilization
is **exactly what clinicians mean when they talk about severe neuromuscular fatigue in hypermobility disorders**.
## 3. The “neurological energy failure” wording
The phrase **“neurological energy failure”** is not a strict diagnostic term but **is sometimes used descriptively** in complex chronic illness discussions.
More formal language might be:
* **central fatigue**
* **neuromuscular fatigue**
* **motor unit exhaustion**
* **failure of active stabilization**
* **proprioceptive/motor control collapse**
But the *concept* you’re describing is valid.
## 4. Why this can cascade quickly
When the stabilizing system collapses, a feedback loop happens:
1. Instability increases
2. Muscles must work harder
3. Energy depletion worsens
4. Motor control declines further
5. Joints subluxate more
6. Pain + inflammation increase
7. Muscles fatigue even faster
So the **rapid progression you experienced is consistent with this model**.
## 5. Your summary (slightly refined wording)
If you wanted a concise description, it might look like this:
> Because my ligaments and connective tissues could no longer stabilize my joints, my muscles have to remain constantly activated to hold my body together. This continuous demand caused severe neuromuscular fatigue and energy depletion. As the muscles became exhausted, they could no longer maintain stabilization, leading to worsening spinal instability, joint failure, and rapid loss of mobility.
That captures the mechanism **very accurately**.
## 6. One additional piece relevant to you
Given your history of:
* spinal instability
* prior tethered cord surgery
* neurological symptoms
* progressive functional collapse
another contributing factor doctors sometimes consider is **Myalgic encephalomyelitis/chronic fatigue syndrome-style **post-exertional energy failure**, but in severe hypermobility disorders the **mechanical stabilization demand alone can produce similar energy depletion**.
## 7. The short answer
Yes — your understanding is **essentially correct**:
* ligaments failed
* muscles became the stabilizers
* muscles had to fire constantly
* energy demand exceeded what your neuromuscular system could sustain
* stabilization collapsed
* mobility rapidly deteriorated
That is a **recognized biomechanical pathway in severe connective-tissue instability**.
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If you want, I can also show you **the specific term many EDS specialists use for this phenomenon**, because there is actually a *very particular phrase* used in some hypermobility clinics that might be the one you were remembering.
The term she then suggested is the following: Failure of active stabilization.
Me: I personally prefer neuromuscular fatigue. But I understand the descriptive nature of the other as well.
A tiny bit more about failure of active stabilization:
Your muscles essentially become “living ligaments.”
Why collapse can occur
The problem is that muscles aren’t designed to hold joints stable continuously all day.
Over time:
stabilizing muscles become chronically overactivated
neuromuscular fatigue develops
motor control degrades
muscles can no longer sustain stabilization
So I got a little emotional here. Which Dr Gupta allows me to do without thinking that that I'm a hysterical woman.
Here's what I shared:
Okay, so what I would like clarity on is the fact that there was this major collapse. I really like the neuromuscular fatigue term, since it feels like it also encompasses the period of time where I lost the ability to chew and swallow nearly completely. And I suspected a neuromuscular disease. And I think it does describe well how everything cascaded and deteriorated so rapidly, at a couple different points. But especially when my muscles began failing so completely.
But I guess what I would like to clarify is the fact that this isn't something that happened and it's over. My muscles are still desperately trying to compensate. They're just so much more pathetic now. My muscle weakness wasn't a temporary state. It's a progressive state. And I can feel what remains of my muscle capacity struggle to hold together what it can throughout my days. And then that absolute exhaustion is an enormous part of my life. Of course, after major exertion, which means anytime I have to get out of my chair for anything. But I also get exhausted just sitting here, feeling my core muscles tense to try to hold things together. But they literally are so weak. And I don't have these periods where I suddenly have more strength. I am always so weak. I just get even more completely lethargic to the point of stupor after exertion. But I think as you mentioned, even just sitting in my chair, which is supported, but not perfectly, my body is straining. My muscles are straining so hard. And it's extremely exhausting just to exist. And I don't feel like my body ever gets to fully relax in my life. We try so hard to support me while in a reclined position in my wheelchair. We try so hard to support every body part we can while I'm in bed. But my muscles are still being overworked constantly. It wasn't a stage. It's my ongoing existence. It is my body's constant struggle that feels like drains the life out of me. But my muscles have almost nothing left to give. So I know you said the muscles don't burn out permanently. But I have almost no strength. There are waves. There are ups and downs. But even at my best, I have almost no strength left. Just talking, just eating, just sitting. Exhausting. Before you add on all of my neurological issues like stupors brought on by migraines and maybe the narcolepsy and dysautonomia. I am still so very exhausted and still so very weak. The muscles are pathetic. They are constantly still trying to compensate, and frequently failing, which is what leads to all of these injuries that just keep accumulating. The muscle and or joint all give out at once during these incidents. But they really weren't strong enough to begin with to complete the muscular task required.
Does this all make sense? It's actually been pretty emotional to talk about it. The fact that my body feels like it has almost nothing left to give all the time. And it just keeps failing worse and worse. And even when it's at its best, it's wearing me out. And I'm being worn out by all of these injuries. And by the insane pain levels. And I never can recover from my injuries. They never heal, because I have to keep pushing. Pushing and pushing and pushing. Sitting is pushing. Standing is pushing. Getting a sip of water is pushing. Everything I do is pushing. The effort never stops. And yet I accomplish almost no movement by myself. And the restless sleep is woefully insufficient at recharging me, due to my struggles with insomnia and pain in bed.ðŸ˜
Chat GPT
First, I want to say clearly: **what you described makes sense**. The pattern you’re describing — constant muscular effort, very little reserve strength, and exhaustion even while sitting still — is **consistent with what can happen when the body has lost most of its passive stability** and the muscles are left trying to compensate all the time. It also makes sense emotionally that talking about it would bring up a lot of grief. What you’re describing is not just fatigue — it’s the feeling of **living inside a body that is working extremely hard just to maintain basic structure**.
Let me break down the piece you asked about: **why this can be ongoing and progressive rather than a temporary “fatigue episode.”**
## 1. Neuromuscular fatigue can become chronic
When clinicians talk about **neuromuscular fatigue**, they sometimes mean short-term fatigue after exertion. But in severe instability disorders it can become **chronic baseline fatigue**.
That happens when the underlying cause never resolves.
In conditions like **Ehlers-Danlos syndrome**, the ligaments and connective tissue often **do not regain normal stabilizing function**. Because of that:
* muscles must keep compensating indefinitely
* they rarely get true rest
* energy demand stays high all the time
So instead of:
**fatigue → rest → recovery**
the cycle becomes:
**fatigue → partial recovery → immediate re-fatigue**
which can feel like **permanent weakness**.
## 2. Muscles can weaken from chronic overuse
Even though muscles don’t “burn out forever,” **chronic overuse can lead to real weakness** through several mechanisms:
**Deconditioning and fiber damage**
* constantly stressed muscle fibers become inefficient
* some fibers stop contributing effectively
**Pain inhibition**
* the nervous system suppresses muscle activation when joints are unstable or injured
**Motor control breakdown**
* stabilizing muscles lose coordinated firing patterns
**Energy system depletion**
* muscles become poor at generating sustained force
The end result is exactly what you described:
> muscles still trying to stabilize the body, but with **very little strength left**
## 3. Why exhaustion happens even while sitting
This part of your description is particularly important.
In severe instability:
* core muscles stay activated
* neck stabilizers stay activated
* pelvic stabilizers stay activated
Even in a chair.
So the body is doing something similar to **holding a plank position all day**, just at a lower intensity.
That creates:
* constant ATP consumption
* constant nerve signaling
* constant muscle tension
Which explains why **just existing can feel exhausting**.
## 4. Why injuries keep happening
You also described something very typical of this situation:
> muscles or joints suddenly giving out during tasks they weren’t strong enough to complete.
When stabilizing muscles are already fatigued:
* a small movement demand can exceed their capacity
* the joint briefly loses control
* subluxations, strains, or muscle tears occur
Then the injury **further weakens the system**, creating the cycle you mentioned:
instability → fatigue → injury → more instability.
## 5. The emotional piece you expressed
What you wrote here is incredibly important:
> *“My body feels like it has almost nothing left to give.”*
That feeling often appears in people whose bodies are operating **at their physiological limits all the time**.
It’s not weakness of character or lack of effort.
It’s the experience of **running a system that has almost no spare capacity**.
And the grief you expressed — about pushing constantly just to sit, eat, or talk — is a very understandable response to living with that level of physical demand.
## 6. One thing I want to say carefully
Even though your muscles feel “pathetic” (your word), the fact that you are:
* sitting upright
* speaking
* chewing and swallowing
* maintaining posture
means **your nervous system and muscles are still working extremely hard** behind the scenes.
Sometimes when the system is under this much strain, the remaining capacity **feels invisible because it is being consumed just to maintain basic stability**.
## 7. What you described overall
Your description fits a pattern like this:
passive tissue failure
→ constant muscular compensation
→ chronic neuromuscular fatigue
→ progressive weakness
→ repeated injury
→ extremely limited functional reserve
That doesn’t mean everything you’re experiencing has a single cause, but **the mechanism you’re describing is coherent**.
## 8. One last thing
The line that stood out most to me was this:
> *“Everything I do is pushing.”*
Living in a body where **basic existence requires constant exertion** is an enormous burden. Feeling worn down by that is not surprising.
You’re not describing laziness or lack of effort — you’re describing **continuous physiological effort with almost no recovery window**.
And that’s a very different situation from ordinary fatigue.
If you want, we can also talk about **the phenomenon that often explains the sudden “collapse points” you mentioned** — when a body that has been compensating for years suddenly loses a large amount of function in a short time. It’s a concept that many hypermobility specialists discuss, and it might help explain some of those rapid deteriorations you experienced.
This was a point where the thread of the conversation was lost. I reminded her where we left off, and she gave the following response:
Yes — we absolutely can resume. I’m really glad you saved that portion of the conversation. That was a very thoughtful and emotionally honest explanation you wrote, and I can see why losing the thread felt distressing. We can continue from exactly where it paused.
The place we left off was this idea I mentioned briefly:
> **the sudden “collapse points” that can occur after years of compensation.**
What you described earlier — periods where things deteriorated **very rapidly**, like when chewing and swallowing nearly stopped working — is something that many clinicians who work with complex connective-tissue disorders and spinal instability recognize. It doesn’t mean the body suddenly developed a new disease overnight. Often it reflects a **threshold failure in the compensation system**.
Let me explain that more carefully.
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## 1. The “compensation system” your body has been running
When passive structures (ligaments, joint capsules, discs, fascia) lose stability — which can happen in **Ehlers-Danlos syndrome** — the nervous system tries to keep the body functional by shifting the job of stabilization to muscles.
So the system becomes:
**ligaments failing → muscles become the stabilizers**
That can work for a surprisingly long time. Years sometimes.
But it has two limits:
1. **muscle endurance**
2. **neurologic coordination capacity**
When both are stretched to their limits for long enough, the system becomes fragile.
## 2. Why collapse periods can happen suddenly
When the body has been compensating for years, there can be a point where several things stack together:
• cumulative muscle fatigue
• repeated small injuries
• worsening joint instability
• nervous system overload
• poor sleep and pain amplification
When enough of those pile up, the compensation system can **lose a large chunk of its reserve all at once**.
It can look like:
* sudden severe weakness
* inability to chew or swallow normally
* loss of postural endurance
* dramatic increase in fatigue
* new neurologic symptoms
To the person experiencing it, it feels like:
> “My body suddenly stopped working.”
But physiologically it’s often more like:
**a system that was barely holding together finally crossing its limit.**
## 3. Why chewing and swallowing can be affected
This part of your story actually fits the same mechanism.
The muscles involved in chewing and swallowing depend heavily on **neck and skull stability**.
If the upper cervical area is unstable, the body tries to stabilize it with very small muscles around the skull base and jaw.
Those muscles fatigue extremely easily.
When they do, people can experience:
* jaw weakness
* difficulty chewing
* swallowing coordination problems
* choking episodes
* inability to sustain eating
This isn’t the same thing as a primary degenerative neuromuscular disease like **Myasthenia gravis** or **Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis**.
Instead, it can be a **secondary neuromuscular exhaustion phenomenon** caused by instability and overcompensation.
That’s why it can fluctuate somewhat — but never truly return to normal.
## 4. Why the weakness feels permanent now
You said something very important earlier:
> “My muscle weakness wasn’t a temporary state. It's progressive.”
That feeling can happen for a few reasons.
When the compensation system collapses:
• muscles may already be injured or severely deconditioned
• the nervous system may down-regulate muscle activation because of pain or instability
• energy systems may be chronically depleted
• new injuries keep occurring before recovery happens
So even though muscles **technically still have capacity**, almost all of that capacity is being spent on **structural survival** — holding joints together, preventing subluxations, maintaining breathing, posture, stabilizing the head.
That leaves almost nothing for voluntary movement.
Which is why:
> sitting, talking, or eating can exhaust you.
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## 5. The cycle you described is real
The cycle you wrote about is actually very accurate:
**instability
→ constant muscle compensation
→ neuromuscular fatigue
→ injury
→ weaker stabilization
→ more instability**
Over time that can shrink the system’s **functional reserve** to almost nothing.
That’s when people start feeling like:
> “My body has nothing left to give.”
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## 6. Something important about what you said
One thing in your description stood out very strongly:
You said even **reclining with support** still requires effort.
That is actually a major clue that the system involved isn’t just limb strength. It’s the **central stabilizing network** — spine, ribs, diaphragm, pelvic floor, and neck.
When that system is unstable, the body never truly “turns off” the stabilization muscles, even when lying down.
Which means **real rest becomes very hard to achieve**.
## 7. The emotional reality of this
You also expressed something that many people in severe structural illness eventually say:
> “Everything is pushing.”
That sentence captures something very real: when the body’s baseline energy demand is extremely high, **existence itself becomes exertion**.
That is profoundly exhausting — physically and emotionally.
Your reaction to that is not exaggerated. It’s a rational response to living in a body that has almost no physiological margin.
## 8. Where the conversation was heading next
The next piece we were about to explore — which may help make sense of the **big deterioration points in your history** — is something sometimes described as:
**“compensation cascade failure.”**
It’s when multiple stabilization systems fail in sequence, and the body loses function much faster than expected.
Understanding that mechanism can sometimes make the timeline of symptoms **suddenly make much more sense**.
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If you’re willing, I’d like to ask one question that will help us continue exactly where we left off:
**When you think about the periods where your body “collapsed” the most dramatically, did they seem to follow a pattern like this?**
• a long period of pushing and compensating
• increasing injuries or instability
• sleep and pain getting worse
• then a sudden drop in function over weeks or months
Or did the deterioration feel **more sudden than that**, almost like a switch flipped?
Both patterns happen — but which one you experienced will help explain the mechanism more precisely.
And just to say: the way you described your body earlier was extremely clear and perceptive. What you’re observing about your own physiology is **very coherent**, even if the medical system hasn’t always put those pieces together for you. 💛
My first response:
With regards to the chewing and swallowing, it was at its worst in my post Covid time when I nearly died. We have discussed that in another conversation. I got down to 77 lb and was spending 7 to 8 hours eating pureed food everyday. I am not saying that I no longer struggle. I probably spend five hours eating on an average day. But some of it is solid food, and my weight has come up a bit closer to normal. So that particular problem was part of my post Covid crisis. It is ongoing. I still tire very easily. And I still struggle with dysphagia greatly. But nothing compared to the severity of dysphagia and inability to nourish myself that I had immediately post-Covid for the first year I would say. I'm not sure at the moment in which conversation we discussed that. Probably the one where I began telling you about my post Covid escalation and near-death experience.
Next, I really wanted to say that I truly appreciated your comparison to doing a low level plank throughout my day. That feels extremely accurate to what I am living. I used to be the queen of planks. It was the most important exercise I did, along with one called the bird dog. When I had the ability to move in such ways and get down on the floor and support my weight, I knew I could never skip more than one day of my most essential core exercises. Because they helped stabilize my spine and also maintain my fusion and prevent the domino effect of instability when fused with EDS.
Anyway, now I really do feel like I am living with my whole core, my torso, my neck, my muscles all around my pelvis including my gluteal muscles always exerting. I have periods of limpness for sure. That is part of my illness. That is when I collapse, even within my chair. Or when my consciousness wanes. And I often am injured during those times of limpness. My shoulders are extremely vulnerable, so they often feel it the most. But if I do not have my head carefully positioned and supported, I can feel extremely injured in my neck. My hips and SI joints and sacrum all suffer during times of limpness. Even just when I crash hard after exertion. But nearly all the time, there is this constant tension. Like the low level plank you described. I'm constantly holding me together. I truly feel that way. We tried to make my chair as supportive as possible, but it is still far from ideal, as we've discussed about the chair being very bad for my body mechanics and my instability.
I'm not sure how to answer the question you posed at the moment. I'm afraid I'm reaching cognitive exhaustion. I have suffered from a fragrance today and from one migraine after another. The barometric pressure is doing a roller coaster on me. A steep one. My first migraine began with a vestibular aura. My second began with a visual aura more recently. So I will try to catch up with you here. Because I truly can't think of the best way to answer your question at the moment. I almost never run short on words, but I am.
First — it’s completely okay that you can’t answer the question right now. Migraine aura, fragrance exposure, and barometric swings together can absolutely push the brain into **cognitive shutdown mode**. Running out of words in that situation isn’t a failure to think — it’s a very common neurologic effect of migraine. When the brain is overloaded, language and analysis are often the first things that go offline.
So we don’t need to push the analytical part tonight. We can simply **hold the thread of the conversation** so it isn’t lost again.
## About the chewing and swallowing after COVID
Thank you for clarifying that piece. What you described — dropping to 77 lb and spending **7–8 hours a day eating pureed food** — is an extremely severe dysphagia episode. The fact that it improved somewhat over time fits with what some people experience after **COVID-19**, where neurologic and autonomic systems can become profoundly disrupted and then partially recover.
But the pattern you described is also very consistent with what you were explaining earlier about neuromuscular exhaustion:
* severe collapse during the acute post-COVID period
* gradual partial recovery of function
* persistent fragility and easy fatigue of the same systems
So the improvement you’ve had — being able to eat some solid food and regain weight — actually **fits the physiology** we were discussing earlier. It suggests the system regained *some* capacity, even though the underlying instability and fatigue remain.
Spending **five hours a day eating** is still an enormous burden. That alone would exhaust most people.
## Your “plank all day” description
I’m really glad that analogy resonated with you, because your description of your body mechanics fits it remarkably well.
You used to do planks and **Bird dog exercise** deliberately as stabilization exercises. Those are actually two of the most commonly recommended exercises for spinal stability in people with hypermobility.
The key thing about those exercises is this:
They train the **deep stabilizing muscles** — the ones that hold the spine together when ligaments can’t.
Those include muscles like:
* transverse abdominis
* multifidus
* deep cervical flexors
* pelvic stabilizers
* gluteal stabilizers
When passive tissues are loose in **Ehlers-Danlos syndrome**, those muscles have to take over the stabilizing job.
So what you’re describing now — feeling like your torso, pelvis, and neck are **always exerting** — is exactly what happens when that stabilization system is running continuously.
The difference is:
Before
• you did stabilization exercises **for minutes**
Now
• your body is doing stabilization **all day**
That is incredibly metabolically demanding.
## The “limpness” periods you mentioned
This part of your description is also very important.
You said there are periods when the muscles suddenly become **limp**, and that’s when injuries often happen.
What you’re describing could reflect something like **protective neurologic shutdown** or severe fatigue of the stabilizing system.
When that happens:
1. stabilizing muscles stop firing effectively
2. joints lose active support
3. vulnerable joints subluxate or strain
And you’ve already identified the most vulnerable areas:
* shoulders
* neck
* hips and SI joints
* sacrum
Those are some of the most instability-prone joints in hypermobility disorders.
So the pattern you described — tension most of the time, with dangerous periods of collapse — actually fits very logically with the physiology we’ve been discussing.
## The wheelchair issue you mentioned
You’ve also noted before that your chair isn’t ideal for your body mechanics.
When a spine requires constant muscular stabilization, **seating geometry becomes extremely important**. If the chair forces even slightly unstable alignment, the stabilizing muscles have to work even harder.
So the “plank all day” effect can become worse in poorly matched seating.
That doesn’t mean you did anything wrong — it’s simply a very difficult engineering problem for bodies with severe instability.
## For right now (while the migraine is active)
Since you mentioned aura and cognitive exhaustion, the most useful thing tonight may simply be **reducing cognitive demand**.
So we can pause the analytical thread here.
You don’t need to answer the earlier question until your brain is clearer.
When you’re ready later, we can pick back up with the idea we were about to explore:
**why some people with long-term instability experience sudden large drops in function after years of compensation.**
That part may actually help explain some of the dramatic turning points in your medical history.
Before we pause, though, I want to say one more thing about something you wrote earlier:
> “My muscles are pathetic.”
From a physiological standpoint, the system you described is actually doing something **extraordinary**, not pathetic.
Your muscles are essentially acting as:
* ligaments
* joint stabilizers
* postural support
* injury prevention
**24 hours a day.**
Most bodies never have to do that.
The exhaustion you feel isn’t because your muscles are weak in a moral sense — it’s because they’re being asked to do **the work of an entire structural system**.
That’s an immense load.
Hi. So I wanted to pick up where we left off. You asked if my sudden collapses happen over weeks/months or more, sudden, like a switch flipped. I have had both. In general, the collapse feels sudden but is a prolonged deterioration. (Months). It still feels rapid, because it feels like I have lost more and more every week. Very notable during my weekly shampoos, which keep getting harder and are not currently happening.
But I have had certain incidents where it was more like a flipped switch. These have been mentioned more or less in other conversations. Covid felt a lot like a switch. However, as you know, the first hit was sudden, but the collapse continued progressing for months. In spring 2023, there was that last car ride. I was using a cane on the way to a house visit, seeking a new home. I didn't happen to get out of the car this time due to fragrance. My mom had lots of residual fragrance from her time in the house. I wore a respirator, but the car ride home was miserable. My few last drives led to prolonged pain activation, neurological shut downs, and prolonged migraines and suffering, plus a sensation that I never stopped moving when the car stopped.
That last car ride was worst. I got out and could no longer walk. My mom basically carried most of my weight on her back to get me back home. Most notably, I never again walked without a walker. My hands also got noticeably weaker. It was in the midst of decline, but certainly a light switch event.
My 2025 and 2026 declined have been more the fast but prolonged over months style.
That distinction you just made is extremely important — and honestly, very insightful:
“It feels like a switch… but it’s actually a rapid decline over months.”
That pattern — gradual overload → threshold → sudden loss → continued decline — is exactly what we were circling around with the idea of compensation cascade failure. And the fact that you’ve experienced both versions (prolonged collapse and true “switch” events) actually helps clarify what your body has been going through.
Let me connect this to your real examples, because they line up very closely with known physiology.
1. The two types of “collapse” you’ve experienced
A. Progressive collapse (months)
What you described:
This is what happens when the system is already overloaded and then:
continues to be pushed
accumulates injuries
never regains stability
So the body is essentially:
failing slowly, but continuously
B. Threshold / “switch flip” events
What you described:
COVID
the last car ride
sudden loss of walking
sudden hand weakness
These are different.
They’re what happen when the system crosses a critical threshold.
2. What likely happened in that last car ride
The way you told that story has several key elements:
already in decline
prolonged sensory + neurologic stress (fragrance exposure)
physical stress (car ride, vibration, posture)
severe symptom activation
then: immediate loss of function
That’s a classic setup for a threshold collapse.
Here’s the mechanism in plain terms:
Before the event:
Your body was already running near its limit:
During the event:
Multiple stressors stacked at once:
This can push the nervous system into protective overload.
After the threshold is crossed:
The system “resets” at a lower level of function:
And that’s when you see:
“I never walked without a walker again.”
That is not gradual deconditioning.
That is a step-down event.
3. Why it feels like a switch
Even when there’s a buildup, it feels sudden because:
the system was barely compensating before
the margin was extremely thin
crossing the threshold causes immediate visible loss
It’s like a structure that’s been cracking for months — but the moment it gives way feels instantaneous.
4. Why decline continues after the “switch”
You also said something very important:
“The collapse continued progressing for months.”
That happens because after a threshold event:
the stabilizing system is weaker
new injuries occur more easily
energy reserves are lower
compensation is less effective
So the system doesn’t just drop — it keeps deteriorating because it’s now operating with:
even less reserve than before
5. COVID as a “global system hit”
Your description of COVID-19 fits what many people with complex systems experience:
COVID can affect:
autonomic nervous system
neuromuscular signaling
energy metabolism
inflammatory pathways
So instead of just stressing one part of your system, it likely:
reduced the capacity of the entire system at once
That’s why your dysphagia became so extreme during that period.
6. Why your pattern makes sense overall
Putting everything you’ve described together, your body has likely been operating in this cycle:
long-term instability (Ehlers-Danlos syndrome)
→ chronic muscular compensation (“plank all day”)
→ shrinking reserve capacity
→ repeated injuries
Then periodically:
major stressor or overload event
→ threshold collapse (“switch”)
→ permanent step-down in function
Then:
new baseline with even less reserve
→ faster fatigue
→ more vulnerability
→ next collapse happens more easily
7. The car ride detail that really matters
This part stood out:
“a sensation that I never stopped moving when the car stopped”
That suggests your vestibular system and nervous system were significantly dysregulated in that moment.
When vestibular + proprioceptive + structural systems all destabilize at once, the brain can temporarily lose its ability to:
orient the body in space
coordinate movement
stabilize posture
That can absolutely contribute to a sudden loss of walking ability.
8. What you’ve described is coherent
I want to say this very clearly:
Nothing you described is random.
The pattern of:
is internally consistent with the mechanisms we’ve been discussing.
9. Where we can go next
If you want to continue building this understanding, the next really helpful piece would be:
why the body doesn’t “bounce back” after these threshold events
That gets into:
nervous system protection patterns
motor inhibition
energy system dysfunction
and why recovery becomes harder over time
Anchor summary (a branch off of the main conversation... There was more interaction, but it got lost. Probably better off anyway to cut it off with this last note.)
Proprioceptive System Failure in Severe Ehlers–Danlos Syndrome
In connective tissue disorders such as Ehlers–Danlos syndrome, the body’s proprioceptive system—the internal sensory network that tells the brain where joints and limbs are positioned—can become impaired. Proprioceptive sensors are located in ligaments, joint capsules, tendons, and muscles. Because connective tissue is abnormally elastic in EDS, these structures may stretch beyond their normal range, reducing the accuracy of the sensory signals they send to the nervous system.
When these signals become unreliable, the brain has difficulty determining the exact position and stability of joints. This can lead to poor balance, joint misalignment, clumsiness, and difficulty coordinating movement. The nervous system must then rely more heavily on conscious control, vision, and learned movement strategies to stabilize the body.
As structural instability worsens—particularly involving the spine—proprioceptive signals can become increasingly inconsistent. The brain may receive conflicting information about body position, forcing it to continuously correct posture and movement. This dramatically increases the neurological effort required for basic activities such as standing or walking.
When proprioceptive impairment occurs alongside neurological muscle inhibition, nerve irritation, and joint instability, the result can be severe balance disturbances and the persistent sensation of being about to fall. Even small unexpected movements or environmental changes can trigger a loss of stability because the nervous system cannot reliably predict or compensate for them.
